Technology and screen time are big issues for this parenting generation, and they’re topics we need to think about earlier and earlier - hence they’re subjects we cover in Toolbox Preschool Years. Because even though our toddlers might not yet be able to read or write, most of them can navigate YouTube on their parents’ phones, operate an iPad and spot Bluey from a mile away.
Recently, during one of the Toolbox sessions I was facilitating, a parent asked the question “Why is screen time so bad?” He and his wife had different perspectives about how harmful screen time actually is and they were trying to figure out what to do. As he pointed out, he was told as a kid that if he watched too much TV he would develop square eyes (that old scare tactic!), yet he had turned out fine. It led to a really interesting discussion within the group and one that I think was important.
Generalisations like ‘screen time is bad’ and ‘all technology needs to be avoided as long as possible’ seem to be all over child-raising. This parent was questioning; he didn’t want to blindly just follow the ‘this is bad, don’t do it’ crowd – he wanted to make an informed decision for his child based on facts and deep consideration. I applaud him for doing that because as we all know, it’s really hard to remain strong against a child who is continually asking for a screen. We spend a lot of time and effort resisting those requests, so I think our decisions should be well-considered.