Extract from Kind, Firm, Calm: Simple Strategies to Transform Your Parenting, by Jenny Hale.
There is an abundance of parenting information available but it’s often contradictory, leaving many parents overwhelmed and confused. Parents can find themselves second-guessing the decisions they make – wondering if they are being too harsh, too lenient, too detached, too available… the list goes on.
Good news – there is a simple balance that offers an easy-to-remember parenting posture. It combines warmth and affection, is held in place with gentle leadership, and is delivered calmly knowing that children thrive when the atmosphere is peaceful. I like to call this KFC – kind, firm, calm.
In my opinion, keeping a balance of these three things is the key to parenting. Unlike Colonel Sanders, I’ll happily share my KFC secret recipe.