Whenever a child feels a scarcity of any resource - be it time, attention, property, love or focus - there will be a scramble to get it in whatever way works. Children also have an immature concept of justice, and from where they sit, they see plenty to complain about. There will be arguments over who got to the car first, who squeezed in more bubble bath mixture or who has been breathing too loudly. Kids are also more niggly with one another when their tanks are empty - too little sleep, not enough food or having too much on the go. And who do they take it out on? Those closest to them...
There is a normal side to your children having disagreements, being bossy, snatching, hoarding, sulking and getting moody. Most children with siblings will fight – relationships mean there will be conflict. The good news is that children can learn – little by little – to get on, to give and take, to be generous and kind and to forgive.