Giving children periods of child-led play where the adult/caregiver has to follow the cues and instructions of the child helps to alleviate stress in both young and old. The key is letting the child lead and be in charge, which can be hard! In addition to creating some hilarious memories, playing together in this way strengthens the relationship bond and it is these connections and relationships with whānau and loved ones that really release the most feel-good hormones (like oxytocin and dopamine) into our systems. This, in turn, helps to mitigate the effects of the increased stress hormones parents are experiencing.
So, while it may seem insignificant to take a walk to the letterbox or spend some time playing “Daddy Robot” or “Grannies” (we see you Bandit Heeler, raising the bar so inspiringly high), the simple feel-good vibes that we experience as a result of fresh air, fun and whānau connection truly are our most powerful weapon in the quest against stress.